My daughters reflux is getting worse each day, even with the medication. She’s crying for feeds but refusing both ways of being fed, or when she is being fed, she’s throwing it straight back up. I am having the old familiar panic attacks that I haven’t had in years because I am worried for my daughter. I feel like a failure because the right people will neither diagnose nor treat her tongue tie, other than people who charge for it and I just don’t have the money to travel or to get it done. I feel like I have nobody to talk or turn to because they’re all sick of hearing it and have their own problems. My left boob is also very sore and warm down one side. I’ve been breast feeding as much as she will actually do and hand expressing.